Screening Guide
what is screening?
Screening is an industry wide practice in place to keep companions safe. Screening has always been, and will always be, non-negotiable. That’s show business, baby.
I require one of three options: your ID, LinkedIn profile, or industry references. You can choose whichever option works best for you.
how do i screen with id?
The fastest and easiest way to pass screening is by sending a photo your government-issued ID. You may obstruct your address from the ID, but not the photo or your name. The ID should be easily visible.
how do i screen with linkedin?
I accept work verification through LinkedIn profiles with at least 500 connections. You may send a connection request to my secret account to verify the account is yours (which I won’t accept for discretion).
How do I screen with references?
If you want to screen using references, it is slightly more involved so please keep the following in mind:
Ask first. It’s polite to ask permission first before listing someone as a reference. Your reference will let me know if you were a respectful and considerate gentlemen during your time together and if they recommend you as a client. References should be recent enough (usually no older than a year since your last date) that they remember you and will be able to sing your praises.
Plan in advance. It can take time to hear back from companions who may be busy or touring, so advance planning is recommended. Last minute requests using references rarely work out. Listing more than one reference also increases the likelihood I will hear back sooner.
Know what types of references I accept. I only accept references from independent companions with their own website and/or social media presence. I do not accept references from agencies. I do not accept P411.
Also not accepted: your Costco card, your MySpace page, a lock of your hair, your high school yearbook photo, your DuoLingo score, a note from your mother describing you as a “nice boy”, etc, etc.
mutual discretion
As a professional companion, I appreciate your need for discretion and the importance it holds for your in your life. Your personal details, and anything shared between us in our time together will always remain strictly between us. I do not engage in petty gossip and I expect the same courtesy. Screening is used to verify your safety as a client, and will never be shared.
I understand the need to keep our public time away from prying eyes, and am happy to share some secrets for date ideas that are extra discrete. Just ask. :)